all boils down to three simple facts: 1st is, when things are pressurized, our minds are hyper-focused, which is why ironically, for example now in Libya, a country, thanks to he-who-must-not-be-named, that started to bomb them, is total chaos, there is more kindness, for as people suffer, they become more aware of suffering, which leads us to the next truth, which is when people don’t suffer, they’re faced with the freedom to either ignore suffering or to care