A Rabbi once complained to the Tzemach Tzedek – third Chabad Rebbe – wherever I walk in my synagogue, people step all over me – “who said you should spread yourself over the whole synagogue, that wherever anyone walks, it must be over you?” replied he.

All love comes from humility and all hate comes from arrogance, for when we are humble, we don’t take up “space,” so everyone else is seen as a bonus in our lives, but when we are arrogant, we take up all the space (our ego) so everyone else (particularly whom we perceive to be successful) are intruding on our “space.”