A normal person is concerned with their image, an abnormal person or what in psychology is called narcissistic wounding, which in common parlance means a person who believes that they are shameful, because other people whom they trust shamed them, and they believe that they are shameful, therefore they create what’s called a narcissistic identity, which means that in order to repair their inferiority complex, they create a self image of superiority, which then in turn creates a jealous hatred, like the wicked queen in Snow White, that she had to be "the MOST beautiful!" Therefore they are concerned about their image to the EXCLUSION and to the DETRIMENT of others… which is also why we find anti-Semitism, in fact, anti-americanism, which is by narcissistically delusional people, wishing to destroy those who they actually see as BETTER than them – for that, in the narcissists’ subconscious, isn’t fair, – for THEY deserve to be the best! Then there’s unfortunately the depressed person, who basically has a self shame and repression – ideally we reach the stage in which we care to improve Another’s self-image