A lot of suffering comes not from reality, but from the trauma that reality is not matching what we think it should be, so here is what it is – reality, is about three different realities merging into one – the first is the love, desire of God, for you – the world is your womb in which you and I are born – giving a sense of freedom – a mind, capable of discerning! – then there is the direction which is beneficial for us to choose! – but as this must come not in a fear-based compelled, rather love-based choice, many are the zig-zag roads that lead every individual to the promised land!