A friend of mine – from a bit of a deviant societal culture – asked me “So I have been married for five years and haven’t had an affair – am I out of the woods?” “The very fact you can even ask such a question, shows you are not“ replied I – the reason I write this, is: the very fact a person can demean another shows, that until we completely give our mind, our speech, to God’s will – Unconditional Surrender….!