Ultimately either we live in fantasy (this happens in countries that are safe, so we tend to enjoy imagination – this happens more to men then woman) or we God-forbid live in nightmare (this happens with either physical or psychological unsafety – the brain will often to self-protect constantly create (the corollary opposite of fantasy) nightmare scenarios – it’s the way of preventing danger scenarios) but we hopefully overcome both – the ultimate reality is to Listen to God and Do Our Best