We are only our true self when we abandon our fake self – and this is the first message of God to a spiritual seeker, namely Abraham “Go To YOURSELF” which you can only do if you are willing to abandon your identity as a countryman /citizen, as even your very self, which is just a collection of your various instincts and desires, and your perception of your family identity – go to the identity that You Are Here Only To Serve The Will Of God