Let me tell you about the most important Mitzvah – the most important Mitzvah in the Torah that I just did… – and that is – there was an individual… I don’t want to reveal too much… but for whatever reason he left town – someone who I felt close to… and not only didn’t say goodbye… after a couple of tries of me reaching out… didn’t reply – so I thought to myself, I should really not bear a grudge, I should tell him that I’m upset – now the Jewish law says, that when one is upset – one has one of two options, this is literally straight Jewish law – the higher option is to forgive them – the second option is to tell them that you were upset – because you may not hold a grudge