Every single human being, perhaps even animal – you sort of see this with dogs – is either open to everyone – this is when you haven’t been bitten… – so in actual fact, you seek love – The other is where you have been bitten and you seek safety – so the mind now shows you danger – and worst case scenario is when the mind shows you what’s wrong with others, because there’s a jealousy of the happiness, and it causes us to want to make them miserable by shaming – this is very important to realize, that all individuals or groups who Shame are just bullies – and finally the ideal state is where Your Convictions Are What Drives You