The healthy soul first and foremost lives in safety (this of course really depend on many factors – many… gifts) the healthy soul is humble (this too – as arrogance (narcissistic) is in fact a defense mechanism – hence also is a gift) the healthy soul seeks the purpose of life (and again to be able to find it – in Jewish mysticism (mainly…) is also a gift) the healthy soul Is not fooled (it knows evil…) the healthy soul controls her emotions (it can get upset, but also forgives…. it can feel pain but can increase pleasure, it can feel joy but can balance out)