the secret to Judaism, really life itself – which really they are the same – in order to be creative – one sort of needs to withdraw – when the mind is preoccupied – like say swimming in one pool, it is impossible to be simoultanoiusly in another – however every time you withdraw, you are at a great liability of being able to recreate into anything – so the secret to life is on one hand there must be stabilizing factor, such as your years of education, your Shabbos, your Davening, your kissing the Mezuzah (men tend to be more forgetful, related to the structure of our brains…) and then you like a tree, rooted in firm soil, grow up