Because we all come from 1 – there is an intrinsic need – it’s in fact and intrinsic sense of… Oneness – and therefore, listen to this carefully… this is the deepest psychology, the deepest truth… and that which can save you… and that is, if you love others… you feel that Oneness – now remember, because there is also jealousy in the world – we don’t only have the force of loving – we also have another force and that is when our ego is “great…” – in other words, we think we’re better than others… – what happens is we cannot handle when somebody less than us has more than us… – and therefore what happens is when we feel entitled, we feel it is not fair that someone else should have what we lack – and when we unfortunately integrate the false belief from a bully that we are unlovable… – this is really the only reason for bullying… for anti-semitism… it is the subconscious jealousy of self-esteem of someone’s sense that they are lovable… which is why in both these cases, the primary, if you wish to call it, “weapon of emotional destruction,” is shaming