It’s interesting there was a lady who wrote a book called “tiger mom” about how the Chinese are very, I wouldn’t call t abusive, but tough in the way they educate their children, and one of the examples she had, was how her daughter didn’t want to play the piano, and she forced her, and then the daughter was so happy with the result; and obviously there has to be a happy medium – but the point I want to bring out is that the only time a human being actually can both learn something and be proud of their achievement is, if it does take difficult efforts