There are three truths and one of them is infinite, the first truth is that we all are mixtures of both narcissism, which is necessary, in order to have an identity, even if it’s a subconscious – which is how a child develops their identity; the second is, we also have idealism, and all people have these two forces in various combinations; But ultimately, because we are part of infinity – infinite growth, like it takes a diamond to polish a diamond, for only the hardest substance can cut the hardest substance, therefore our only real choice in life is, will we act narcissistically, or will we have faith in God and be one of his angels