There are four judgemental, versus non judgemental approaches – in the judgmental approaches, there is the outer and inner, namely, 1. those whose jealousy causes them to judge everyone, as it’s a mechanism to excuse abuse 2. where a person judges themselves harshly, creating in self, abuse, such as in depression and suicide – in terms of non judgemental, 3. you have the attitude of naive people, that nobody should be judged, though ironically they allow themselves to be, and finally 4. you have the truth, which is that though all people can be both good and bad, and we must be able to discern! we don’t hate