If you imagine life as a four rung ladder, at the very bottom are the Misnagdim, who delusionally believe that they are God, and any other narcissistic- after that comes those who being afraid – because narcissistic bullies use shame and people are afraid of being shamed… then there are those people that have natural normal openness and love, and finally at the top, are those people that are truly humble – choosing the word of God