There’s nothing more important than realizing, as the story, that Rabbi Akiva got Shipwrecked, and everybody believed that he had perished, and yet he came into the Synagogue, and they asked him “How he could survive, literally the ocean, and everyone died!” and he said, “Every wave that came, I bowed my head to it” – in other words, instead of trying to fight for a goal, realize, this world is like an ocean, and everything that comes your way is a lesson