Just overheard the most amazing exchange, one preschool boy with righteous indignation!… complaining to the teacher that this girl purposely fell on him, and the girl perhaps to protect herself, begins to cry “it was an accident…” “it was an accident…” and of-course the teacher just wants to distract them – but the thing is this – why do we get so upset when something bad happens to us, if we perceive that it was malicious