1. The connection between why Yosef was on one hand punished for Asking the butler and on the other hand that’s where his salvation came from: it’s well-known, that Yosef was on the level that he should have only relied on miracles, but because he put himself on the level that he is seeking from nature help, therefore he got it from nature; and the lesson to us is, that we can choose whether we wish to be a subject of Miracles or subject of nature.
2. When looking for a spouse, if God sees that you are stable, then he can find somebody appropriate to your status.
3. Because the world is far more refined than it ever was, anybody today can lift themselves beyond the vicissitudes and problems to a location in which their faith and belief, that everything will be good, will fill them with confidence and joy.