Men/Husband Need | Women/Mother/Wife Need | Children (age) Need |
Love (How To: Compliment) | Love (How To: Compliment) | Love (How To: Compliment) |
Safety (How To: Job/Income, Never Shame (this causes neroises) Food (There has to be some kind of mechanism) | Safety (How To: Job/Income, Never Shame (this causes neroises) Food (There has to be some kind of mechanism) | Safety (How To: Job/Income, Never Shame (this causes neroises) Food (There has to be some kind of mechanism) |
Self-Discipline (How-To: Obviously this must be self-developed, but by allowing egregious (such as abusive) behavior – it worsens) | Self-Discipline (How-To: Obviously this must be self-developed, but by allowing egregious (such as abusive) behavior – it worsens) | Self-Discipline (How-To: Obviously this must be self-developed, but by allowing egregious (such as abusive) behavior – it worsens) |
Joy (Men, A. Every morning count your blessings! (by nature otherwise we see not what we have, but what we don’t!) B. Dedicate yourself to a life of compassionate-giving! (C. It goes without saying, hold not onto anger, resentment – which is like poison to joy.) | Joy (Women, A. Every morning count your blessings! (by nature otherwise we see not what we have, but what we don’t!) B. Dedicate yourself to a life of compassionate-giving! (C. It goes without saying, hold not onto anger, resentment – which is like poison to joy.) D. The More Children The Happier! (as is evidenced by those who do.) | Joy (Children need structure and structure comes from routine – the best positive routines come from Positive Religions, such as the laws of Judaism – in simple words, by both following the laws and being a role-model, the children feel safe, happy and look forward!
Studies show, the increase screen-time is leading to increase depression –
Finally, nothing makes children happier then seeing parents who love each other.
When at the right age: teach your kids to, A. Every morning count your blessings! (by nature otherwise we see not what we have, but what we don’t!) B. Dedicate yourself to a life of compassionate-giving! (C. It goes without saying, hold not onto anger, resentment – which is like poison to joy.) |