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The Need’s Of Men/Women/Children

Men/Husband  Need Women/Mother/Wife Need Children (age) Need
Love (How To: Compliment) Love (How To: Compliment) Love (How To: Compliment)
Safety (How To: Job/Income, Never Shame (this causes neroises) Food (There has to be some kind of mechanism) Safety (How To: Job/Income, Never Shame (this causes neroises) Food (There has to be some kind of mechanism) Safety (How To: Job/Income, Never Shame (this causes neroises) Food (There has to be some kind of mechanism)
Self-Discipline (How-To: Obviously this must be self-developed, but by allowing egregious (such as abusive) behavior – it worsens) Self-Discipline (How-To: Obviously this must be self-developed, but by allowing egregious (such as abusive) behavior – it worsens) Self-Discipline (How-To: Obviously this must be self-developed, but by allowing egregious (such as abusive) behavior – it worsens)
Joy (Men, A. Every morning count your blessings! (by nature otherwise we see not what we have, but what we don’t!) B. Dedicate yourself to a life of compassionate-giving! (C. It goes without saying, hold not onto anger, resentment – which is like poison to joy.) Joy (Women, A. Every morning count your blessings! (by nature otherwise we see not what we have, but what we don’t!) B. Dedicate yourself to a life of compassionate-giving! (C. It goes without saying, hold not onto anger, resentment – which is like poison to joy.) D. The More Children The Happier! (as is evidenced by those who do.) Joy (Children need structure and structure comes from routine – the best positive routines come from Positive Religions, such as the laws of Judaism  – in simple words, by both following the laws and being a role-model, the children feel safe, happy and look forward!

 

Studies show, the increase screen-time is leading to increase depression –
quite simply, children should have not more than one hour of screen time (yes, for thousands of years, they managed to keep themselves happy and entertained, with infinitely less!) Obviously, all screens should both be in public places and have proper filters (additionally all movies that are filled with innuendo and violence (cartoons are far more violent than movies and kids differentiate not (as to them, whatever you show them is real!) should be avoided!)

 

Finally, nothing makes children happier then seeing parents who love each other.

 

When at the right age: teach your kids to, A. Every morning count your blessings! (by nature otherwise we see not what we have, but what we don’t!) B. Dedicate yourself to a life of compassionate-giving! (C. It goes without saying, hold not onto anger, resentment – which is like poison to joy.)

 

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Being blessed with an inquisitive mind, being Jewish, so not being stuck in any secular or general societal Paradigm, being blessed with access to the deepest secrets in Jewish mysticism, having traversed pretty much all philosophies, religions, atheism: Life, as all of the greatest, wisest Rabbis, King Solomon – and as one speaker, who I brought to a college campus said, “Jews have been accused of everything, from capitalism to Communism, from Barbarism to asceticism, but no-one, but no-one, was so audacious and foolhardy to accuse Jews of not being smart” and every one of the smartest Jews – and for those who know their writings, know, that they make Einstein look like a fool, they all conclude exactly the same message, that this week’s Torah portion from God teaches: namely, Life gives you the option to follow your instincts or to follow God – in the former, you end up not only “fat, ugly and stupid”, but you can God-forbid become a hater, a sadist, a Nazi