Dear Pamela May I humbly disagree with your ad. Why have been Jews been targeted for millennia? What is behind the savagery of antisemitism? Fundamentally, Jewish mysticism explains, that it is jealousy. But if Jews were the underdog, if they were the dhimmis, second class citizens, why were so many jealous for so long?! The answer is simple: The ultimate jealousy is the jealousy not over the possessions one, as a materialistic person craves, but over, simply, happiness. The Jewish people by nature are loving people. By nature love is a good, warm, happy emotion. So antisemites primarily desire the destruction of the loving heart! Terrorism – as the very word connotes – is to instill fear, for if the heart is fearful, it cannot be loving. Pamela, as a very right wing Rabbi, and supporter of Jewish people, I want to say you have caught the bug of the antisemites inner subconscious desire. If we begin to hate them – never condone, never surrender, but at the same time never to fail to maintain our dignity, our love, our rationality instead of their emotionally charged literally mad insane rhetoric, then we have actually walked straight into the trap they have laid out for us. Continue to promote all the good but never demean another, for if you do you have actually caught the very virus they desire to infect you with. With blessings Rabbi Wineberg
Within man there is the capacity for both The trick is to realize, that if we hold on to resentment we are holding onto all the evil, that caused all the evil, which is evil.
The bottom line, given the restrictions of possibilities that unfortunately I see, for ideally I believe it would benefit you guys to learn together as well as do mediation to resolve all issues which is good advice for ALL couples is – you should try to see her and your life with her for the blessing that it is, for in seeing the positive you will love her and your life with her.
The mistake of western civilization boils down to a single issue, which upon understanding this we will enter the messianic age – it’s not what’s on the outside that counts, its what’s in the inside (your beliefs, your emotions, your attitudes, your loves, banishing your fears) that does.