His latest book is why Mars and Venus collides
He explains that men and women have different brains
In fact almost opposites
In Kabbalah this is also very clear for men have a strength in innovation while women’s strength is understanding reality
The bottom line is, that women cannot turn off reality, while men can
In other words – if you are a man – imagine that reality dictates that you must do four things (cook, earn money, clean, put the kids to bed) then these things become absolutes, and you cannot get around the fact they are necessities
If you are a man however, nothing is absolute, everything can be invented – basically, you have a fantasy button, so nothing in reality troubles you
One of the most fascinating mistakes all religions make even possibly Jews, but not Kabbalah/Chassidus, is the notion of black and white!
Good and bad!
From bad to good, or from neutral to good, is actually the goal of this world!
The simple notion of spiritual people, religions, is, that spirituality is good, hence physicality, particularly pleasure, is bad!
Kabbalah insists, that this world is not an exit towards spirituality, rather spirituality is an entrance into remodeling a possibly crass material existence into a Godly existence.
To keep things simple, I will list the possibilities and it will be the (perhaps) easiest way for us to be able to see this altruistic utopian world, in your (and my) hands!
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