I was recently on this psychology course and one of the things they do to help you get in touch with yourself is help you discover what is valuable to you – most people ironically responded that money is not an item of value
If you would need to rate what are items of value to you, what would it be?
To me it would be family
Torah / God
Israel etc. etc.
Now all those things are inside of you, they are not really on the outside
All those things only take effort, connection, time to achieve